Monday, February 16, 2015

Mother

My mother met Jesus early Thursday morning.  I wasn’t there.  She did that for me.

My mother had been at less than her best for some time.  She had lived with me for the past year.  She had a stroke on November 30 but recovered from it.  However, she had been declining since then and last Saturday night apparently had another.  We moved her to Harbor Hospice House for those last days.  The caregivers there are truly God’s angels on earth.  In those last days she was agitated and restless although heavily medicated.  She was calmer when I left her Wednesday night, and when I saw her again, it was total peace.  She was beautiful.

I was, of course, very sad all day Thursday, and I know I will be again from time to time.  But now there is nothing but joy.  I can picture her in Heaven.  She has found her precious German shepherds: Thunder, Miss Scarlett, Jezebel and Gypsy, and the little dogs: Muffin and Tiffany.  She has gabbed away with Edith and Wylma and Madeline.  She has questioned God about why He waited so long to bring her home, and now she’s telling Him how best to care for me.  And she’s walking FAST all over Heaven.  Of her ailments, the one that pained her most was her degenerated knees.   At 80 years old, she was outpacing me across Lowe’s, try as I might to keep up.  In these last years, her knees gave out, and she had a fleet of walkers.  They aren’t needed now.   

I know my mother is having a ball in Heaven, and that gives me immense joy.  We took her to her earthly home in Fort Worth for the worn-out body to repose.  But there is no resting in peace for Marjorie Nell Erskine Burks; she is enjoying Heaven for all she’s worth. 


People have been so very kind and sorry for our family’s loss, for which I am very grateful.  But I want them to rejoice with us for her new life.  And I’m glad she is my mother.